Untangled: Guiding Teenage Girls Through the Seven Transitions into Adulthood
Why Everything You Know About Raising Teenage Girls May Be Missing the Seven Transitions That Unlock Growth
About This Book
Embark on a profound journey into the world of adolescent girls, where the tangled threads of independence, emotion, social belonging, and self-discovery are the heart of everyday life. This guide sheds light on the mysterious transformation from childhood to adulthood, revealing the hidden logic behind mood swings, social shifts, and parental pushback. Readers will discover practical tools rooted in psychology, real family stories, and actionable strategies that challenge outdated parenting myths—all while equipping you to form stronger bonds and nurture resilience. Unlock the secrets to navigating major milestones, dismantle anxiety over what’s ‘normal,’ and help girls thrive in a rapidly evolving world.About the Author
Lisa Damour, Ph.D., is a renowned clinical psychologist, bestselling author, researcher, and trusted advisor to schools and families. Known for blending empathy with incisive research, Dr. Damour has dedicated decades to guiding adolescent girls, their parents, and educators through turbulent developmental years. As a regular contributor to major publications and a sought-after speaker, she translates complex psychological science into practical wisdom—helping families build strength, self-awareness, and lasting relationships. Her warmth, insight, and evidence-based strategies have impacted thousands nationwide.
Biggest Takeaway
Gain an actionable roadmap for understanding the true developmental needs of adolescent girls, bridging the gap between confusion and confidence in parenting or supporting them. Learn to interpret dramatic shifts and challenging behaviors, foster autonomy without losing connection, and build trust that encourages open dialogue about risk, friendship, and self-care. With tools to cultivate emotional intelligence, set productive boundaries, and harness the power of supportive tribes, readers will see measurable improvements in family harmony, decision-making, and adolescents’ psychological resilience.
Key Insights from This Book
Explore the most important ideas and learn how to apply them in your life.
Why Girls Push Parents Away and What to Do Instead of Panicking
The Power of Validation: Helping Girls Harness Big Emotions Without Shame
Building Emotional Intelligence Through Conflict: Why Healthy Fights Matter More Than Getting Along
Why Girls’ Risky Friend Group Behavior Doubles Danger—and What Actually Protects Them
Understanding Double Standards and Social Isolation: When to Worry About Unusual or Extreme Behavior
Shifting Parent–Child Power: Navigating the End of 'Because I Said So' Without Losing Authority
Redefining Success for Girls: Grit, Growth Mindset, and the Hidden Dangers of Over-Planning
Demystifying Peer Conflict and Bullying: Teaching Assertion Over Niceness or Meanness
Technology as a Double-Edged Sword: Building Digital Boundaries and Emotional Regulation
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