Use intense eye contact to captivate someone.
from How to Talk to Anyone: 92 Little Tricks for Big Success in Relationships by Leil Lowndes
How to Apply This
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Pretend that your eyes are glued to your conversation partner.
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Maintain eye contact even when he or she is done speaking.
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When you must look away, do it very slowly.
Imagine your gaze as sticky candy, stretching until it finally breaks. -
Be less sticky in a man-to-man conversation, but do increase eye contact slightly more than normal
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If you want to hold intense eye contact, there must be at least two other people - your target and one other person.
Don't try this on strangers in public places as this packs a powerful punch. -
Watch your target person even if someone else is talking.
No matter who is speaking, maintain eye contact with the person you want to impact. -
For a gentler effect, you can take your eyes off from the listener to the speaker but bounce back to the target when the speaker finishes a point.
Your target will still think that you are interested in their reactions.
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