Use illusions and calculated absences to become more attractive.

When you keep the proper distance and let your target fantasize about you, your seduction grows stronger.


  1. Do not let your target see you as you are.
    Give your target the chance to fantasize about you by remaining elusive. Do not become too familiar with them, and avoid overexposing yourself.
  2. Send your target a message that you cannot be taken for granted.
    Stir a little bit of doubt in your target by coming across as a person who has something special about them. Use calculated coolness and absences to seem unattainable.
  3. Make yourself seem poetic.
    Associate yourself with poetic images and objects to seem lofty. Use this imagery to make your target fantasize about you.


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