Try Softer

How to Apply This

  1. Observe the uncontrollable areas of life where you are pushing harder.
    As you think of these areas, scan your body and notice if you feel any sensations.

  2. Identify an area you can control.
    Ask yourself, “Is it even worth my resources?”

  3. Try being softer in the area of life you can control.
    Find ways to remain in your window of tolerance while working on that area of your life.

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