Unfuck Your Brain
Self-awareness
Navigate Your Grief with Compassion and Understanding
from Unfuck Your Brain: Using Science to Get Over Anxiety, Depression, Anger, Freak-Outs, and Triggers by Faith G. Harper
How to Apply This
- Embrace the Necessity of Mourning.
Acknowledge that mourning is an essential part of the healing journey after a loss. Give yourself permission to fully experience your feelings during this time. - Learn About the Varieties of Grief.
Educate yourself on the different manifestations of grief—such as complex, anticipatory, disenfranchised, delayed, and displaced grief—to better understand your own grieving process or to offer empathy to others. - Refrain from Clichéd Consolations.
Avoid using overused sayings that might undermine the depth of someone's sorrow. Offer heartfelt support and recognize the individuality of their grief instead. - Propose Concrete Help.
Offer tangible aid, like doing grocery shopping or looking after pets, and inquire with the bereaved about what they might find most helpful in their time of need. - Honor the Bereaved's Preferences.
Respect their choice if they choose not to accept help, and communicate that you are ready to assist whenever they might reconsider. - Engage in Empathetic Listening.
Be fully present for those in grief, giving them space to express their feelings without facing criticism or attempts to alleviate their anguish prematurely. - Craft a Personal Ritual for Healing.
Contemplate the nature of your loss and create a personal ritual or ceremony that allows you to honor and process your feelings, aiding in finding closure and significance.
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