Unconditional Parenting
Raising children
Make the balance between saying “yes” and “no” to a child’s requests
from Unconditional Parenting: Moving from Rewards and Punishments to Love and Reason by Alfie Kohn
How to Apply This
- Avoid saying "no."
Don't say "no" until it's really necessary. In addition, think about the implications of your words as much as possible. React and say no if the situation is really dangerous and threatening. - Say "yes."
Say "yes" to your child's requests as often as possible, especially if it has no negative implications. Give advice and support your kids' choices.
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