Escalate intimacy with a woman


  1. Communicate your physical and sexual needs openly and honestly.
    Have an open and honest conversation with your partner about your physical and sexual needs and desires. Be clear about what you want and need from the relationship.
  2. Respect each other's boundaries.
    Respect your partner's boundaries and be mindful of what they are comfortable with. Respect their wishes and be willing to compromise if needed.
  3. Be physically assertive with women.
    Initiate physical contact with women quickly and comfortably. Touch her lightly on the arm near the elbow. Use touching to emphasize a funny moment or the punchline of the joke.
  4. Incorporate physicality into your conversation.
    Use games such as thumb wars, twirling her like a ballerina, or giving high fives to initiate physical contact. As the conversation progresses, the more comfortable you become, the more you should be touching, and the more personal your touches should be.
  5. Respect her boundaries.
    If a woman tells you to stop doing something, stop. Ask her if she’s uncomfortable and/or why she’s uncomfortable. Respect her boundaries and clarify as early as possible what she’s comfortable with and what her expectations are.
  6. Go for the kiss.
    When in doubt, go for the kiss. If she turns her head or doesn't reciprocate, pull back and ask her how she's feeling.


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