8 Rules of Love
Self-awareness
Embrace solitude to overcome loneliness
from 8 Rules of Love: How to Find It, Keep It, and Let It Go by Jay Shetty
How to Apply This
- Practice mindfulness regularly.
Spend some time each day to reflect on your thoughts, feelings, and actions. This will help you gain a better understanding of yourself. - Reflect on your choices and values. Take some time to reflect on the choices you make in different areas of your life, and see if they align with your values. If not, think about ways to make changes that will bring you closer to your goals.
- Engage with the activities you enjoy.
Begin by doing something alone that you enjoy and that is not too challenging. This could be reading a book, going for a walk in nature, etc. - Challenge yourself to try new things alone.
Set goals that will help you step out of your comfort zone and try new things alone. This could be taking a class or going on a solo trip. - Identify areas of growth and make a plan.
Think about the areas in your life that you would like to improve. It could be in the personal, financial, mental/emotional, health, and relationship areas. Then, create a plan that is achievable and realistic. Use the three Cs of transformation - Commitment, Consistency, and Compassion - to help you stay focused and motivated. This means committing to your goals and being consistent in your efforts while also being kind to yourself throughout the whole journey.
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