Discover shared meaning in your relationships.
from The Relationship Cure: A 5 Step Guide to Strengthening Your Marriage, Family, and Friendships by John M. Gottman, Joan DeClaire
How to Apply This
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Focus less on conflict and more on commonalities.
Respect the areas where you do not agree with others. For example, you could have differing opinions on religion, but have a lot in common when it comes to raising kids and football. -
Support each other’s dreams.
Digging into each other’s hidden dreams and supporting them offers tremendous potential for intimacy and emotional connection. -
Explore the rituals you share and create new ones.
For example, your ritual could be attending sports events together, hosting each other in your homes once a month, going for your annual vacations together, or doing charity work.
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