Good Leaders Ask Great Questions

Engage in deliberate self-reflection

Instructions

Assess your self-image regularly.
Leaders must have the confidence and willingness to invest in their own growth. Start by assessing your self-image on a scale of 1–10. Then, reflect on why you've assigned yourself this rating and identify specific aspects of your self-image you'd like to improve. For example, if you feel insecure about public speaking, you might want to join a public speaking club to develop your skills and confidence in this area.
Define your goals.
Leaders are visionaries. They set a clear direction and think of the best way to achieve it. Start by writing down your goal. If you dream of leading a large organization, for example, outline the skills and experiences required to get there, such as obtaining an MBA or gaining leadership experience in your current role. This step ensures your investments in personal growth are targeted and meaningful.
Surround yourself with positive influences.
Assess the impact of your relationships on your growth. Are your friends and colleagues supportive of and aligned with your goals? If not, seek out new connections that inspire you, offer constructive feedback, and encourage your development. Remember, the people you surround yourself with can significantly impact your journey.
Continuously invest in your personal growth.
Dedicate time and resources to your development. Identify books, seminars, workshops, and other resources that align with your goals. Set aside regular time for these activities, understanding that the investment you make in yourself is the most valuable investment you can make.
Examine your motives.
Reflect on the reasons behind your leadership. Are you driven by a genuine desire to help others succeed, or are there elements of self-interest? Honest examination of your motives keeps your leadership authentic and ensures your actions benefit the wider team and organization.
Cultivate humility.
Practice humility by recognizing and accepting your strengths and weaknesses. Celebrate the successes of others and keep your ego in check. Humility in leadership fosters respect and loyalty, which can encourage a culture of collaboration and mutual support.
Be authentic.
Be true to yourself in your leadership. Share your challenges as well as your successes, and be transparent with your team. Authenticity builds trust and strengthens relationships, laying the foundation for a strong and cohesive team.