Create space between you and your target to make them pursue you in return.

By stirring up the dynamics, you avoid letting your target become too passive. Create space, and let your target become active in seduction by pursuing you in return.


  1. Be mysterious and create space between you.
    Do not let your target become passive. Start by becoming aloof. For example, arrange an unexpected absence. You can even hint that you are getting bored with them.

  2. Make it seem that they have competition.
    Stir the dynamics further by showing or creating an illusion that you are interested in someone else. Avoid being too obvious as it can be too cruel.

  3. Let them come to you.
    Respond to their approaches with an affirmation.


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