Create a triangle by using another person to show how desirable you are.

Your target will almost automatically find you more desirable when you appear desirable in the eyes of others.


  1. Identify your friends, admirers, and past conquests.
    Recognize the people in your life who find you desirable and aren’t afraid to show it to the world.

  2. Let your target see you interacting with someone else who admires you.
    Let them see how much the other person wants you. Make them compete with your past and your present.

  3. Consider using contrasts to make yourself appear more desirable.
    You might come across as more interesting and desirable if you are surrounded by dull and uptight people. Choose a setting where your natural qualities are rare to showcase your desirable attributes.


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