Take control of your relationships.
- Talk to your partner about values.
Clarify your own values and ideas about what you consider a fulfilling relationship and your partner’s values and ideas.
- Decide that being in love is more important than being right.
This allows you to interrupt your own patterns when your desire to be right leads to conflict.
- Develop a pattern for when things get heated.
Use a bizarre or humorous pattern to interrupt arguments.
- Change your vocabulary.
Use words that lessen the emotional intensity of arguments.
- Plan regular nights out.
Plan to have dates at least once a week or twice per month.
- Show affection daily.
No insights yet
Our mobile app, Mentorist, will guide you on how to acquire this skill.
If you have the app installed