Build a functional family

Apologize to your partner and children when you are wrong.
This will boost their self-esteem as they will feel valued and respected.

Give your children the freedom of speech at home
Let your children express themselves freely.

Help your children go through their fears.
For example, encourage a child who is afraid of starting school by walking him there and assuring him that he can do it.

Express your feelings to your partner and kids.
It helps them understand you too.

Provide assistance to your children whenever necessary.
For example, help your younger kids dress up.

Respect your partner
Show appreciation, gratitude, and attention to your partner. This will create a conducive environment for your children’s upbringing. Moreover, it's going to keep you and your partner mentally stable.

Separate from an unapologetic abusive or addictive partner.
This will save your life and also make it possible for your kids to grow up in a good environment.