To become likeable, be similar and get involved in cooperative activities.

Building relationships is essential to have a meaningful life. So whether you want to woo your crush or form a business relationship, this advice will help you in building relationships with anyone.


The power of similarity.  
We have a tendency to attach easily to people who are similar to us in looks, mentality, and life experiences.

The power of cooperation.
When we participate with others in an activity to reach a common goal, we naturally build a liking toward them.

  1. Be similar and find activities in which you can cooperate with people with whom you want to build a relationship.
    To be similar, aim for common ground between you and the other person. And find some activity in which you can participate together. For example, playing on the same team in sports like basketball can help you build a relationship with the other person.
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